Some Things Go Beyond Fandom, Especially When a Young Man is Diagnosed With Cancer
Amid the hoots and the hollers, the tailgating, the touchdown dances and the thrill of a Saturday at your alma mater it is easy to forget that College Football is a game. A game that is played, by and large, by kids. While we build them up with phrases like "He's a man," "Man among boys," "Quarterback seeking missile," and the lot; football players are kids. Some barely old enough to order a beer and most too young to entertain the notion.
So, when one of them, any of them, are told they have cancer, they are no longer these destructive entertainers we worship every weekend, but boys who were told their lives will never be the same. And likely during that conversation with a man or woman in a white coat, that boy is told that his life may end before all those youthful hopes and dreams even remotely have the chance to be acted towards, let alone realized.
via cache.boston.com
When Dr. Saturday, ney Matt Hinton, reported that All-American Linebacker Mark Herzlich of Boston College has been diagnosed with Ewing's Sarcoma, I got choked up. While I don't know Mark Herzlich from the guy standing next to me on a bus, it doesn't matter. He is a kid with cancer. Cancer before he is able to enter the professional world; whether its football, business, or truck driving is irrelevant, he's never even earned a real paycheck. Instead, he has a condition that threatens to take his life long before it's even truly begun.
Perhaps its the violence of football that leads us to believe these young men are indestructible. They get up after the worst possible hits. They walk away from collisions that would kill lesser individuals. But, at the end of the day, they're human. They're just like us. The same goals. The same fears. The same vulnerabilities. The same needs.
Right now Mark Herzlich is not an All-American, a linebacker, or even a football player. He is a human being who just received some horrible news, and a human being who needs and deserves our support. Not just from Boston College supporters, but from all of us, regardless of allegiances.
Godspeed Mark, we're pulling for you.
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Classy post man!
I sure hope Mark finds a way to read this! I couldn’t have said it better myself.
by beantownkid10 on May 15, 2009 12:04 AM CDT reply actions 0 recs
So well said
I’m a cancer survivor myself and you were so eloquent it makes me wonder if you are as well. If you have any way of getting the post to Mark you certainly should. Also if you have a contact for him please make sure they get this link that has a lot of resources he or his family may want to access. (http://acnwresourcepages.blogspot.com/search?q=sarcoma)
by After cancer on May 15, 2009 9:25 AM CDT reply actions 0 recs
My thanks
No, I’m not a survivor, but cancer runs in my family and several close family members on both sides of the family tree have been affected by it. I’ve heard that news delivered to far too many people, family and friends, and hope and pray it’s a conversation no one else ever has to be on the receiving end of.
News like this just breaks my heart because this young man’s life is just really beginning. While I’m confident he’ll beat this, it’s so hard to hear your life, and your life expectancy, broken down into numbers and percentages as if that’s some kind of solace to hearing the words “you’ve got cancer.” Numbers are comforting to those of us who aren’t affected.
But for those that are, the best thing we can do for them is be there and be supportive, not with numbers and percentages and scientific babble (leave that to the doctors, they’re better at it), but with love, support, and hope.
I pray that’s what the college football community as a whole can do for this young man and for anyone affected by cancer.
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by Maize n Brew Dave on May 15, 2009 10:55 AM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
Well said, Dave.
My mom is a cancer Survivor, while i lost a grandmother to cancer in January. Frankly, it scares the shit out of me, so I commend those who fight it.
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by BoilerTMill on May 16, 2009 10:52 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
Thanks
I’m Mark’s father and really appreciate your comments Dave. I’ll make sure he sees it. The outpouring of support from all over the country has been overwhelming and very helpful. Mark will beat this thing.
by Herzylax22 on May 18, 2009 9:21 AM CDT reply actions 0 recs
Anything we can do to help
We’re all pulling for him, Mr. H, and we know he’ll beat it. I know I speak for everyone at SB Nation in wishing your son a speedy recovery and even quicker return to the field. When it comes to Mark, we’re all Eagles fans now.
Maize n Brew
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by Maize n Brew Dave on May 18, 2009 10:44 AM CDT up reply actions 0 recs

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